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People age — it’s what happens if you get to lớn live sầu for a while — but how aging is portrayed in literature is often one note. As editors Susan Forest và Lucas K. Law want to show in their new anthology Seasons Between Us: Tales of Identities & Memories, there’s a symphony of experiences going on.

SUSAN FOREST:

When people think of an anthology on aging, their blink is that the stories will be about end-of-life. But when my co-editor, Lucas K. Law came to me with the concept for Seasons Between Us: Tales of Identities & Memories, his vision was far more inclusive sầu than this. Far more exciting.

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He hoped to lớn explore the process of becoming throughout life, the responses individuals will make to all the myriad points when being changes to becoming, changes lớn being. Because identity is not static. None of us is the same person today that we were yesterday, or will be, tomorrow. Every day, every moment, we grow và change. Every day, every moment, we cross borders taking us from who we were, lớn who we are, and who we will be.

Some elements of identity persist. I was a hyper-responsible child, và I think I shall be rule-bound until the day I die; & though others may find this surprising, I consider myself an introvert. Other elements of identity progress along maturational arcs. I love the self-confidence I’ve developed over the years. Other elements are “seasonal”: in my twenties, I could not fathom any reason why I might want lớn stay trang chính one night a week; a seven-day rehearsal schedule was fine with me. Today? Yeah, not so much. And, when I have lived my life and given of my experience, I hope lớn transcend the flesh’s drive khổng lồ rage against the dying of the light and be nội dung to lớn die.

And in this process, do people “age well”? Perhaps. It is possible many of us gain insight & tolerance over years lived. Those who vì not, who remain stuông xã, failing lớn find self-understanding or khổng lồ develop compassion—or those who grow rather in bitterness—might be considered tragic heroes of their own stories. Yet, if there is one thing we’ve sầu learned in recent years with the democratization of voice through truyền thông and social truyền thông, there may not be a single perspective sầu against which we can measure what it might mean lớn “age well.” Cynicism may equate khổng lồ realism & wisdom in individual circumstances.

Therefore, we invited our authors lớn consider these threshold-crossings, whether momentous and life-changing, or intimate, personal epiphanies. We invited them khổng lồ think beyond facing aging or facing death, to lớn facing the unknown in any part of our lives. We invited them lớn mô tả with us and our readers what it means to lớn be, and khổng lồ become.

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This was the big idea behind Seasons Between Us.

LUCAS K. LAW:

Sometimes, there is no one “big idea”. Rather, there is a cumulation of ideas over time.

The concept behind Seasons Between Us began its journey many years ago when a young boy asked his mother, “Why vì chưng people get old và die?”

That curiosity (or rather morbid thought) never truly went away, & it followed me for more than half a century. When Laksa Media started working its anthology series on social issues in 2014, “growing old” was one of the topics high on my menu for an anthology (I want a forum khổng lồ discuss eldercare, affordable housing, and mental health). But I couldn’t propose it because I couldn’t reconcile “getting old” with something positive sầu. At least, not at that time.

What comes to lớn your mind when you see the word aging?

“Old people”? “Ancient,” “feeble”, “useless,” or one of the other negatives!

Then, five years ago, I attended a stage play, & to my surprise, it was about being getting old after 30. (Imagine after 30!) Two years later, the aha moment came when I attended a musical act about a struggle from childhood to adulthood, & then into lớn elderhood. The vision for the anthology became clear. I believe it is important to lớn use the phrase “growing older,” instead of “getting old” or “growing old.”

Aging is a natural progression that begins in our mothers’ wombs & ends with our last breaths. No reversal—just getting older. It includes all of us. No exception. Each season in our journey is a series of waves, rising and falling between joy and sorrow, touching a range of human emotions—some named, some not, some indescribable. Aging opens the door lớn new insights, to lớn the opportunity khổng lồ re-evaluate what is relevant. Do we accept và embrace these experiences? Or vị we run from them? What choices would we make? Or bởi we have sầu a choice at all? How can we live a life of purpose in every season?

These questions became the touchstone for the anthology. Aging isn’t about doom-and-gloom. There are moments of joy, moments of goodness, và moments of festivity in each season. We have a lot lớn learn from each other—the young from the old, the old from the young, & everyone in between. Being independent does not preclude needing each other: lớn grow, lớn expand, và khổng lồ flourish. There’s no shame in asking for support—or accepting tư vấn. Each of us matters. We must live, and we must dream.

In Seasons Between Us, the authors—their ages ranging from their 20s khổng lồ 80s (và every decade is represented)—examine the power of self-exploration as they cope with the undiscovered country of their journeys through growing older over the years. They leave sầu us with probing questions: Who are we? What is the meaning of existence? Do we make a difference? What lasts? What endures? What is a life well-lived? What stories will you leave behind?

Only we can answer these questions personally as they relate to our own lives.

At the kết thúc of each short fiction, the author provides a note to their younger self. So, Susan & I will leave you today with the same question we asked each author to nội dung in Seasons Between Us: Tales of Identities & Memories: What would you tell your younger self?